I don't like messy. But I find charm in slightly flawed.
In a recent post I quoted Richard James, famous Savile Row tailor, speaking about Guy Ritchie:
"... the real secret to his sartorial success is that he is still a little rough around the edges. This is what makes him a true gentleman geezer, a look only a Londoner can pull off."
While I don't necessarily agree only a Londoner can pull this off, I do love the notion of an otherwise natty man incorporating a few rough edges as part of his look.
I think every man should have a few subtle signature elements - those small things that almost seem like a mistake, but in fact are part of their personal style. For example, I have a colleague who only buttons one side of a button-down collar. I'm sure it drives some people nuts; whereas I find it a nice touch.
Mine? Despite possessing the ability to tie a traditionally perfect tie knot [you know the one, with the neat dimple, cozied right up to the neck, with the back tucked neatly in as to not flap around], I never do. If my tie dimples, so be it. And more often than not, the back of my tie is .5 inch longer than the front [and I never tuck the back into the loop, preferring to let it have it's own time in the spotlight if it so chooses].
To repeat: I don't like messy. But I find charm and character in things slightly flawed. This is true not just for clothing, but also for people.
What's your rough edge?